The purpose of become whole requires you to endure and grow through your experiences. You have to push through painful places. There is power in pain. Being broken into pieces allows you to become a vessel of honor. God will continue to make and mold you into a willing vessel. Understand that storms have a purpose: to uproot things that are shipwrecked in our lives. A vessel is a hollow container, yet spiritually we have the Word of God as a treasure in this earthen vessel, that the excellency of the power may be of God and not of us!
Only God can complete us within the inner man and make whole the outer man.
But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you! (1 Peter 5:10)