Author Paul Kivel uses his own experience - as a counselor, son, and father - to illustrate how men are taught to respond to women, other men, and traditions. The easy-to-read text examines the social framework of violence and power, and explores the relationship between drugs and violence. AUDIO -- The audio tape version is designed to be listed to segment by segment with pauses inserted for discussion or thought. The audio helps men develop new behaviors by practicing self-awareness and communication skills. VIDEO -- Realistic dramas and role plays help men and their families learn the roots of abusive behavior and how to practice alternatives to violence.